Women Who Use Cannabis Before Sex Might Be Twice As Likely To Have An Orgasm
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Is there like a "light" way of getting high? I've never done were before, but my friends smoke all the time. I want to try it but I'm not into smoking and I'm afraid it'll be too much for me my first time.
Probably an oil like a CBD oil with low thc. You can control exactly how much THC you're getting and there are other benefits of high CBD content things.
I do not use it or weed though, so take that as you will.
One of my ex girlfriends was so easy to orgasm, a typical session would usually be like 5:1 ratio of her to me. My more recent ex though never had an orgasm during sex in her life despite many partners and also smoking a ton of weed. Like she literally came only 3 times in a relationship she had for four years, which I beat that record in two weeks just by fingering her and paying attention to her reactions. Some girls simply don't cum during PIV sex.
Making a girl cum is not usually that hard, just a lot of girls get up in their heads (which is probably why weed helps some) and feel like they're annoying or a burden or a lot of work if they don't cum during penetrative sex. Also a lot of guys are lazy and don't learn what it takes to actually do it. Don't be that kind of dude. And men are bit different where it's just stroke stroke stroke until you blast but with girls, there's a lot more to work with internally, and externally, rhythmically too. Small movements and techniques make a huge difference. I don't know why I'm still writing about this I'm gonna shut up now lol.
you try boof it
They get so high that they forget how to fake it.
If your only option available is smoking, take one small drag, and maybe a second if the first makes you instantly cough from smoke hitting your throat (it does take some getting used to), and then stop and don't let anyone peer pressure you into doing more. Wait half an hour and see how you feel.
You could also do the same through vaporizing (heating up ground herb or vaping THC-infused stuff, whichever way is available/preferred) -- take one and then step back and don't let anyone try and tell you you're being a pussy, because you're being responsible and pacing yourself carefully with an unknown (to you) substance. That's totally legit and smart.
As @Constant Heart suggests, there's THC/CBD oil, and depending on your province you may have options for multiple potencies and THC-CBD ratios. I'd suggest making sure you get something mild and with at least 1:1 CBD to THC, preferably 2:1 CBD to THC. You'll want to be cautious about going too far the other way when you're just starting.
There are also edibles. Pace yourself and start low if you choose edibles. They can take up to an hour to start to take effect, depending on your metabolism, and can last upwards of four hours. The two big mistakes people make with edibles are eating more before you've waited long enough and now you're on a roller coaster you did not want to get in line for, and not putting the edibles away after the high kicks in and the munches start to sneak up -- putting you on that roller coaster again, just later than in the first case. The third big mistake is not rehydrating yourself during/after consumption, because edibles pack a lot of THC and the diuretic effect will be significant.
One important thing to know is that edibles are not legal in Canada yet! They will be when the federal government either passes a law regulating how they are to be sold and packaged (to keep them out of little hands) or when the anniversary of legalization passes, whichever is first. Concentrates are also currently illegal and will become legal when edibles do, but concentrates are, as the name suggests, concentrated and not a good starting point for someone wanting to start low and slow. If someone offers you a dab of concentrate as your first time, maybe don't unless you are super comfortable with the setting and the people around you.
I can barely get aroused due to a medication I take, but when I smoke it (mostly) kicks that entire problem to the side. I don’t know why but smoking tends to make me feel very much ‘in the mood’
May be a TMI anecdote but weed really does nake your erogenous zones more sensitive. Thats a double edged sword though since after I had some fun time I slammed my boob into a door and fell on the floor in agony.
Weed doesn't really get me in the mood. Mainly because I can't control myself and I always get too high. Last time, I drank way too much "root beer," ate Jimmy John's (tuna), and spent who knows how long hallucinating I was in voice chat with my friends, typing up a crazy rant, and ended up puking all over myself.
First time was even more fun. I drank about half of a root beer and went to go see Thor: Ragnorak. The movie I saw that night was not the movie Marvel showed in theaters.
Let me blow your mind: Do half as much as you usually do and force yourself to put the rest away for an hour (you can come back and do more if you start to come down and you've still got hours before you need to be a responsible grownup again), and then take a very warm (but not hot) shower. If you have a detachable shower head, pull it off and sit down with it once you've gotten soaked.
Try to not run out of hot water, but if you do consider that your motivation to attempt to turn the water off while you grapple with the concept that the human brain is the only known thing in the universe that has named itself.
I tried weed once and it gave me a massive panic attack so I haven't touched it since. Maybe I'm missing out, but I have no desire to go through that again.
Used to be a regular smoker but suffer the same thing now. Just the other day I visited a bunch of friends, they rolled one up (it was very beefy) and I immediately collapsed in on myself and became an awkward mess after.
I only smoke by myself in low doses now.
Dang, that sucks.
I'm thinking maybe it's because I wasn't really in an environment I felt safe in. I barely knew the people I was with. And I felt kind of pressured into it, and I was already very drunk. But I still don't really want to try it again.
Side note but having a panic attack while drunk is a weird experience. Your consciousness separates into two separate layers, one moving faster than you can keep track of and the other still going molasses-slow. It's really hard to describe but I felt split in two. I couldn't keep track of the pace of my own thoughts, let alone exert any type of control over them.
Not recommended.
Until you're comfortable with it and know your tolerance limits and how your body reacts to a reasonable dose, I would definitely advise you to refuse weed if you're not in a safe and trusted environment. Especially if you're already wasted on something else.
There is a paradoxical effect to THC that affects most people at high enough concentrations (which will vary from person to person): Up to a certain point, being stoned is physically and mentally enjoyable and you're giggly and creative if unfocused. Past that point there's an uncanny valley effect where the presence of THC creates strong anxiety and paranoia and further ingestion only makes it worse instead of calming you down the way you might expect based on how it affected you below the breaking point.
For novice cannabis users who don't have a tolerance built up, much like lightweight new drinkers, the margins between "getting a buzz", "whoa haha what the fuck air is just an ocean between us and space", and being uncomfortably too high may be thin enough to cross from A through to C by having as little as one, three, and five drags off of a joint. I cannot reiterate enough that if anyone is going to begin to experiment with weed, do not be afraid to play it very cautiously and reject all peer pressure that tries to force you into having more than you want. Anyone who isn't ready to back off and let you go at your pace can fuck off and let you control what goes into your body.
The quality of weed plays a big factor, never mind if it's spiked with something which is distressingly not rare enough in US street weed. If weed's legal in your state, a legal dispensary is a much safer source than the street, even if the price is higher. If it isn't legal, a dispensary operating in defiance of the law might still be a better bet than buying from Shady Shane on Crackpipe Lane.
Having said all of that, I absolutely respect that you're not enthusiastic about trying it again after such a bad experience and I'm sorry that you had such a terrible time. Take nothing about my post as encouragement, just education. My only recommendation is to keep my rules of thumb above in mind if at some future time the opportunity to try weed comes up and you are a) around people you trust b) in safe conditions where you will be able to take a nap undisturbed if you need to sleep the weed off, c) the weed is sourced from a safe and preferably tested origin, and most importantly d) you want to try it again. Until all those conditions are met I encourage you to responsibly refuse, as I have no doubt you will for a good while after that bad first experience.
I have relatives who smoke some neon green shit, and taking it as a light weight was the worst experience. I wouldn't want to do any of the sort to the point where you need higher and higher doses to get 'high'.
Sniff some glue or gasoline.
Weed is super potent these days. If you’re new just take a hit or two and wait half an hour to see how it feels.
Why would you suggest anyone to do that? Unless you're joking of course.
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