Cuckolding can be positive for some couples, study says - Sensationalist Headlines

[QUOTE=SleepyAl;53087787]I like to think the reason cuckold porn is more popular nowadays is because people viewing the porn fantasize themselves as the bull rather than the cuckold. Ultimate power fantasy to cuckold someone I guess. I can't get off to that cause I'd feel bad for the cuck. A bigger concern for me is why there's so much incest porn. Its slapped onto any random video title that could have been vanilla but they gotta spice it up by having step siblings or step parents or cousins or whatever. It's weird and it ruins some movies when they throw that shit in.[/QUOTE] Its the taboo factor

[QUOTE=jimhowl33t;53087599]I'm saying that a fetish specifically rooted in insecurity, inadequacy, infidelity and emotional pain, probably has a higher chance to stem from (and possibly worsen) a whole bag of issues. Saying it is "just a fetish" is pointless considering the sheer amount of fetishes out there. It's like trying to equate someone who likes to be called Captain Kink by a body-painted partner, with someone into diapers or whatnot. You can't honestly say liking green tiddy bitches has the same roots as enjoying waddling around in your own shit.[/QUOTE] There are [I]plenty[/I] of fetishes that stem from insecurities. Why is cuckolding any different? It's a matter of the execution of it that should matter, not cuckoldry being inherently bad.

[QUOTE=SleepyAl;53087787]I like to think the reason cuckold porn is more popular nowadays is because people viewing the porn fantasize themselves as the bull rather than the cuckold. Ultimate power fantasy to cuckold someone I guess. I can't get off to that cause I'd feel bad for the cuck. A bigger concern for me is why there's so much incest porn. Its slapped onto any random video title that could have been vanilla but they gotta spice it up by having step siblings or step parents or cousins or whatever. It's weird and it ruins some movies when they throw that shit in.[/QUOTE] I forgot about that too, the incest shit. Cuckold porn and "incest" porn everywhere. Hell like I said, a lot of the cuckold porn isn't even cuckold porn, just re-titled videos..

Tons of assumptions being made about the state of people's relationships. Why would partaking in any of this mean that they are insecure or dislike the relationship they're in? It's a fetish, most fetishes involve doing shit that you would never do outside of fantasy. That's like saying liking BDSM means they secretly want to be physically hurt all the time. And just because some relationships end up getting ruined from doing these things doesn't mean the fetish itself is at fault. I can use the same logic some people in here are using and put the blame for a break up on any fetish out there. It's the people doing it, not the fetishes themselves. In the end, who cares what people do? If they enjoy it and it makes them feel good then good for them.

This thread sure has a lot of insecure teenagers in it. [highlight](User was banned for this post ("Shitposting" - Kiwi))[/highlight]

Honestly dunno how you guys dont understand this fetish when you all watch probably tons of porn. Sure it doesnt have the emotional baggage of cucking but theres an appeal to seeing someone get fucked in 3rd person

[QUOTE=kariko;53088392]In the end, who cares what people do? If they enjoy it and it makes them feel good then good for them.[/QUOTE] This is the big point that gets brought up again and again, and yet moral crusaders and overcaring fools ignkre it and just keep trying to justify outrage over people's sex life quirks to try and stand superior when it simply just isn't something that can and ever will affect them and their sensiblities. At that point, one might aswell start fighting people over the brand of gum people use. It's equally petty.

[QUOTE=Matrix374;53088583]Honestly dunno how you guys dont understand this fetish when you all watch probably tons of porn. Sure it doesnt have the emotional baggage of cucking but theres an appeal to seeing someone get fucked in 3rd person[/QUOTE] A porn star is generally not someone your involved in an intimate relationship with

[QUOTE=Mr. Scorpio;53085277]I'm sick of soccer moms and moralfags telling me that I want to shoot people just because I play violent videogames or that I hate women because of the porn I watch. Fantasy and reality aren't the same thing. UNLES UR INTO CUCKING IN WHICH CASE YOU ARE AN INFERIOR BETAMALE SOYBOY[/QUOTE] Telling people it isn't ok to jeer at cucks on the internet makes you a "moralfag" too though

[QUOTE=duckmaster;53087131]He's still sad and pathetic.[/QUOTE] You sound like you are projecting something.

[QUOTE=duckmaster;53086963]I could not be in a relationship where someone has so little respect for themselves that they can trick themselves into thinking they are okay with their partner having sex with someone else.[/QUOTE] The incredible part of this thread isn't just people getting offended by what total strangers do in their free time, but actively projecting insecurities and emotions onto them. Weirder still that they can't accept what would be an otherwise benign and obvious fact that couples who engage in kinks/fetishes together cooperatively clearly have a good level of trust and communication, which is a pretty major indicator of a healthy relationship. I mean yeah, I don't find cuckolding remotely appealing and it's definitely a step up introducing an outsider into your relationship in such a fetishistic way rather than a generic threesome or whatever - but whatever floats people's boats. Saying it has to interfere with their personal lives, that they have to buy into for enjoyment - so deeply they all fall into depressive spirals, and whatever else is garbage. If you're going to give cuckolding that special treatment, almost every other fetish out there beyond what's shown on daytime TV breaks down into absurdity.

So cucks are just guys with small woodpeckers right? I don't get what else would make them think sex is ineffective if they're involved. That or being premature maybe.

[QUOTE=Doom14;53089903]The incredible part of this thread isn't just people getting offended by what total strangers do in their free time, but actively projecting insecurities and emotions onto them.[/QUOTE] [QUOTE=Viper_;53089911]So cucks are just guys with small woodpeckers right? I don't get what else would make them think sex is ineffective if they're involved. That or being premature maybe.[/QUOTE] Like poetry

It just seems to be a key part of the kink. I don't see them mentioning their gfs/wives seeking blonde men because their brown hair is "inadequate".

It's cool to have friends with benefits. It seems sketchy to have an open relationship depending on how deep the love goes. Like buying gifts, etc. Let's say you buy her a nice shirt and the other lover buys her a coat. If you're married and plan on having children, cut the cuckolding part out of your life. Do you even know how traumatizing it is to grow up only to be told that the man you've grown to love is not your dad? Overall sharing partners is haram.

[QUOTE=SILBERDRACHEN;53090347]It's cool to have friends with benefits. It seems sketchy to have an open relationship depending on how deep the love goes. Like buying gifts, etc. Let's say you buy her a nice shirt and the other lover buys her a coat. If you're married and plan on having children, cut the cuckolding part out of your life. Do you even know how traumatizing it is to grow up only to be told that the man you've grown to love is not your dad? Overall sharing partners is haram.[/QUOTE] I thought having multiple partners was called a harem.

[QUOTE=Janus Vesta;53090356]I thought having multiple partners was called a harem.[/QUOTE] If you have multiple partners, yes. But if you share your wife to other men, that is haram. Kind of a double-standard.

[QUOTE=carcarcargo;53086938]I'm sure you can find outliers but I'd say in general no, it won't. I don't really see how a fetish about hammering home the idea that your partner is shit could possibly make a relationship flourish. What's more likely to happen if she'll just leave them for the better man. I mean why wouldn't you? The entire fetish is that your partner is crap so you should fuck other men, so why not just go with the better men.[/QUOTE] Repeating what I said on the first page: [QUOTE=catbarf;53084006]Some couples who are extremely compatible emotionally aren't compatible sexually. Some of those people fetishize it and you get voluntary cuckoldry. Those that don't become swingers or have open marriages. Turns out that if a couple that is satisfied with their relationship in every way except sexually gets that fulfillment elsewhere, it's a net positive for their relationship. Doesn't seem surprising.[/QUOTE] TBH the idea that being better relationship material is defined entirely by being good in bed strikes me as really immature. Like, most people who have successful relationships realize that your relationship is not defined entirely by your sex life. If a couple isn't really compatible sexually but is otherwise compatible and satisfied in all aspects of their relationship, and they choose to fetishize that lack of sexual compatibility to get that sexual satisfaction, you're saying the only logical outcome is that she leaves him for the bull that fucks good, because that's the only thing that determines suitability as a romantic interest?

[QUOTE=SleepyAl;53087787]I like to think the reason cuckold porn is more popular nowadays is because people viewing the porn fantasize themselves as the bull rather than the cuckold. Ultimate power fantasy to cuckold someone I guess. I can't get off to that cause I'd feel bad for the cuck. A bigger concern for me is why there's so much incest porn. Its slapped onto any random video title that could have been vanilla but they gotta spice it up by having step siblings or step parents or cousins or whatever. It's weird and it ruins some movies when they throw that shit in.[/QUOTE] [IMG]http://cdn.geekwire.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/03/pornhubmap-630x478.png[/IMG] It's not really a mystery.

[QUOTE=catbarf;53090389]Repeating what I said on the first page: TBH the idea that being better relationship material is defined entirely by being good in bed strikes me as really immature. Like, most people who have successful relationships realize that your relationship is not defined entirely by your sex life. If a couple isn't really compatible sexually but is otherwise compatible and satisfied in all aspects of their relationship, and they choose to fetishize that lack of sexual compatibility to get that sexual satisfaction, you're saying the only logical outcome is that she leaves him for the bull that fucks good, because that's the only thing that determines suitability as a romantic interest?[/QUOTE] While the explanation is overly simplistic, as is the "probable outcome", cuckoldry is not a complete relationship at all. A relationship requires a two way street that is continually being worked on and upgraded, changing to meet both partners' expectations and "specifications". Cuckoldry for most is saying "this part of the relationship is a dead end and needs a proxy to maintain the rest of the relationship" and that has rather little to do with christian sex in the missionary position or caveman dominance or even sex childishly being cast as the only defining element of relationship, and there's about thirty years of data to back up up the premise the relationships entering into this type of arrangement very rarely last more than five years or so, and only tend to last longer if the couple is very old or very young, or the power dynamic in the relationship is entirely skewed in one direction, which also isn't a relationship. Pretty telling married couples that decide on this type of behavior to even out the marriage end in divorce about 90% of the time, at least in western countries, so apparently it isn't the optimal panacea you're considering it to be, unless the relationship was never "equal" to begin with. A fetish isn't the basis for a lengthy full term relationship anyway, unless you're 16.

[QUOTE=27X;53090686]Pretty telling married couples that decide on this type of behavior to even out the marriage end in divorce about 90% of the time, at least in western countries, so apparently it isn't the optimal panacea you're considering it to be, unless the relationship was never "equal" to begin with.[/QUOTE] Is it taken into account that 50% of all marriages end in divorce?

[QUOTE=phygon;53090581][IMG]http://cdn.geekwire.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/03/pornhubmap-630x478.png[/IMG] It's not really a mystery.[/QUOTE] >step mom Being a state sized oedipal complex explains a lot about washington.

Norm was so confused.