Cuckolding can be positive for some couples, study says - Sensationalist Headlines

[QUOTE=DinoJesus;53085043]Do whatever the fuck you want in the bedroom. Just don't try and convince me having another man fuck your wife isn't sad.[/QUOTE] Do you feel the same way about having another girl fuck your man?

[QUOTE=DinoJesus;53085043]Do whatever the fuck you want in the bedroom. Just don't try and convince me having another man fuck your wife isn't sad.[/QUOTE] "I mean, people can do what they want, obviously let them do whatever they want. It's just that they're sad and pathetic is all." You're still being a bit of an ignorant asshole. And you should be convincing us why its sad, because no one has provided any solid argument, yet.

[QUOTE=DinoJesus;53085043]Do whatever the fuck you want in the bedroom. Just don't try and convince me having another man fuck your wife isn't sad.[/QUOTE] That's probably your view on it, but someone who would be into cuckolding wouldn't view it that way. At the end of the day it's a fetish just like any other and they will find it hot... you know, like a fetish. You don't have to necessarily understand it because it's not a fetish you have, but there's no need to call it 'sad' because of that. And hey, as long as three mature adults who are all alright with it consent to it, there's no harm done.

[QUOTE=DinoJesus;53085043]Do whatever the fuck you want in the bedroom. Just don't try and convince me having another man fuck your wife isn't sad.[/QUOTE] If everyone is into it, how exactly is it sad. Sex isn’t this weird, sacred act that a lot of you are making it out to be tbh. It’s just sex, some people enjoy things sexually that others don’t. It isn’t weird or pathetic to have a fetish.

[QUOTE=Mister Sandman;53085046]Do you feel the same way about having another girl fuck your man?[/QUOTE] If everyone agreed to it, it's fine. If your partner is doing it without your knowledge or doing it even if you don't like it, then they're the piece of shit.

[QUOTE=megafat;53085058]If everyone agreed to it, it's fine. If your partner is doing it without your knowledge or doing it even if you don't like it, then they're the piece of shit.[/QUOTE] Then that's not cuckolding, that's cheating.

[QUOTE=LegndNikko;53085050]"I mean, people can do what they want, obviously let them do whatever they want. It's just that they're sad and pathetic is all." You're still being a bit of an ignorant asshole. And you should be convincing us why its sad, because no one has provided any solid argument, yet.[/QUOTE] Why is it that I have to 100% support it or else I'm being an ignorant asshole? I'm not calling for it to get banned, I'm not insulting cuckold couples to their faces over it. If a couple wants to do it fine, go ahead I won't stop em. That doesn't mean I can't hold an opinion on it. Am I not allowed to have an opinion on any sexual kink? If two people dress up as clowns and start pulling scarves out eachothers asses am I not allowed to think it's gross? Why do I have to give my support of it?

[QUOTE=phygon;53085031]Because your misgivings are about a train of thought, completely regardless of whether or not that train of thought is even being actualized in any way, shape, or form. [editline]27th January 2018[/editline] Political alignment affects your interaction with somebody else. An internal, non-realized fantasy does not.[/QUOTE] Having those thoughts implies you have the trait that I dislike. Granted, the only way I can know you have the trait is if those thoughts surface, just like someone won't know their lover is an Ayn Rand fanatic until it's too late. But I see nothing wrong with retroactively crossing someone off unless you were leading them on and then dumped them without warning. The tiny little train of thought you think I'm nitpicking over is just a symptom of a larger trait—that is, being into cuckolding. I don't want to be with someone who is attracted to cuckoldry, no matter how much or how little they are into it.

[QUOTE=DinoJesus;53085067]Why is it that I have to 100% support it or else I'm being an ignorant asshole? I'm not calling for it to get banned, I'm not insulting cuckold couples to their faces over it. If a couple wants to do it fine, go ahead I won't stop em. That doesn't mean I can't hold an opinion on it. Am I not allowed to have an opinion on any sexual kink? If two people dress up as clowns and start pulling scarves out eachothers asses am I not allowed to think it's gross? Why do I have to give my support of it?[/QUOTE] False dichotomy, it's not like your only choices are "100% support" or "tell everyone how sad and pathetic i think this fetish is".

[QUOTE=DinoJesus;53085067]Why is it that I have to 100% support it or else I'm being an ignorant asshole? I'm not calling for it to get banned, I'm not insulting cuckold couples to their faces over it. If a couple wants to do it fine, go ahead I won't stop em. That doesn't mean I can't hold an opinion on it. Am I not allowed to have an opinion on any sexual kink? If two people dress up as clowns and start pulling scarves out eachothers asses am I not allowed to think it's gross? Why do I have to give my support of it?[/QUOTE] It's not so much your opinion as its strength - why are you trying to tell us it's pathetic? It's not something worthy of such effort; it's just your personal, emotional reaction.

[QUOTE=LegndNikko;53085066]Then that's not cuckolding, that's cheating.[/QUOTE] well technically, it's cuckolding the actual thing, not cuckolding the fetish based on the actual thing it's named after.

[QUOTE=DinoJesus;53085067]Why is it that I have to 100% support it or else I'm being an ignorant asshole? I'm not calling for it to get banned, I'm not insulting cuckold couples to their faces over it. If a couple wants to do it fine, go ahead I won't stop em. That doesn't mean I can't hold an opinion on it. Am I not allowed to have an opinion on any sexual kink? If two people dress up as clowns and start pulling scarves out eachothers asses am I not allowed to think it's gross? Why do I have to give my support of it?[/QUOTE] You don't have to 100% "support" it, but wouldn't you agree that you're kinkshaming people by calling their fetish "sad", which could be in this forum? Sure, they don't have to care about what you say, but you're still kinkshaming people and that isn't really a good thing at the end of the day. Perhaps a polite way of saying what you want to say is "I'm not into cuckolding, but I don't mind people partaking into this specific fetish even though my moral values are different than theirs."

[QUOTE=DinoJesus;53085067]Why is it that I have to 100% support it or else I'm being an ignorant asshole? I'm not calling for it to get banned, I'm not insulting cuckold couples to their faces over it. If a couple wants to do it fine, go ahead I won't stop em. That doesn't mean I can't hold an opinion on it. Am I not allowed to have an opinion on any sexual kink? If two people dress up as clowns and start pulling scarves out eachothers asses am I not allowed to think it's gross? Why do I have to give my support of it?[/QUOTE] "it's gross" or "it's sad and pathetic" are pretty insulting ways to describe it. it can still be strange or weird or uncomfortable to you, those would probably be less insulting words to use.

[QUOTE=DinoJesus;53085067]Why is it that I have to 100% support it or else I'm being an ignorant asshole? I'm not calling for it to get banned, I'm not insulting cuckold couples to their faces over it. If a couple wants to do it fine, go ahead I won't stop em. That doesn't mean I can't hold an opinion on it. Am I not allowed to have an opinion on any sexual kink? If two people dress up as clowns and start pulling scarves out eachothers asses am I not allowed to think it's gross? Why do I have to give my support of it?[/QUOTE] I'm not calling for you to be banned, doesn't mean I can't hold an opinion on you. You don't have to support it, just like you don't have to call it "sad." Who cares if you're not insulting them to their face? How does that improve your point? If you're only argument is "what, I can't have an opinion?" then you've got a pretty shit point to begin with.

[QUOTE=Talvy;53085084]It's not the opinion so much as its strength - why are you trying to tell us it's pathetic? It's nothing but an emotional reaction, benefiting no one. It's just such a pointless topic to care so much about.[/QUOTE] If you really must know, I think cuckolding is sad because a core part of it is believing you cannot please the one you love so much that you give up and have someone else do it while you watch. There's something inherently pitiable about that no matter how detached you try to make it. Speaking subjectively, I'm met open couples and read plenty of accounts from cuckold couples and it always feels like someone is getting fucked over. I remember reading one guy who said he went through boxes of wine just to come to terms with it. Sure if everyone was perfect it'd work out fine, but that's just not realistic. Like I said, I'm not going to stop them from doing it, but I'm still going to have my outside opinion.

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[QUOTE=LegndNikko;53085100]I'm not calling for you to be banned, doesn't mean I can't hold an opinion on you. You don't have to support it, just like you don't have to call it "sad." Who cares if you're not insulting them to their face? How does that improve your point? If you're only argument is "what, I can't have an opinion?" then you've got a pretty shit point to begin with.[/QUOTE] I didn't mean you wanted me banned, I meant to say I'm not calling for cuckolding to be banned. As for my argument see my above post.

According to the researcher this is the first ever research into gay cuckolding and it went straight into the sex science canon.

[QUOTE=01271;53085108]According to the researcher this is the first ever research into gay cuckolding and it went straight into the sex science canon.[/QUOTE] Where can I buy a sex science canon

[QUOTE=DinoJesus;53085105]I didn't mean you wanted me banned, I meant to say I'm not calling for cuckolding to be banned.[/QUOTE] And I used your post as a metaphor. Because I'm not calling for you to be banned, either.

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[QUOTE=DinoJesus;53085103]If you really must know, I think cuckolding is sad because a core part of it is believing you cannot please the one you love so much that you give up and have someone else do it while you watch. There's something inherently pitiable about that no matter how detached you try to make it[/QUOTE] Or roleplaying as it, because they get off on that idea for some reason. Just because someone has a cuckold kink doesn't mean they actually can't please their lover. Because in that case then they just have relationship issues, instead of having a kink. Men who have cuckold kinks don't say "honey, if I can't make you sexually happy, it's okay if another dude fucks you." It's men saying "hey, honey, you know what would really turn me on? Watching another guy fuck you."

[QUOTE=LegndNikko;53085113]And I used your post as a metaphor. Because I'm not calling for you to be banned, either.[/QUOTE] See I don't understand the metaphor then, because you are totally entitled to think whatever you want of me. It's just your opinion.

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[QUOTE=DinoJesus;53084997]Guys I know you want to give everything the benefit of the doubt, and I respect it I really do, but. There is no way to argue in favor of cuckolding that doesn't come across as pathetic.[/QUOTE] I might get some flak for saying this, but.. Comments like this are great examples of toxic masculinity definitely being a thing that exists.

[QUOTE=LegndNikko;53085122]Or roleplaying as it, because they get off on that idea for some reason. Just because someone has a cuckold kink doesn't mean they actually can't please their lover. Because in that case then they just have relationship issues, instead of having a kink. Men who have cuckold kinks don't say "honey, if I can't make you sexually happy, it's okay if another dude fucks you." It's men saying "hey, honey, you know what would really turn me on? Watching another guy fuck you."[/QUOTE] I concede that if that's the case it's less sad, but I still think it's a bit weak. I have a hard time believing that's the majority of cuckold relationships though.

[QUOTE=U.S.S.R;53085072] The tiny little train of thought you think I'm nitpicking over is just a symptom of a larger trait—that is, being into cuckolding. I don't want to be with someone who is attracted to cuckoldry, no matter how much or how little they are into it.[/QUOTE] But [I]why do you care?[/I] You realize that having an interest in a kink is entirely different than being willing to cheat on your spouse, right?

[QUOTE=DinoJesus;53085138]I concede that if that's the case it's less sad, but I still think it's a bit weak. I have a hard time believing that's the majority of cuckold relationships though.[/QUOTE] How is it weak for a man to actually have the willpower to say "honey, I want to watch you get fucked by someone else?" When there's an entire world that sincerely believes a lot of the negative stuff said in this thread, and he hears it constantly, but he still says it? How is that weak?

[QUOTE=DinoJesus;53085138]I concede that if that's the case it's less sad, but I still think it's a bit weak. I have a hard time believing that's the majority of cuckold relationships though.[/QUOTE] I'm curious about what you mean by "a bit weak."