Cannot connect to community servers, and lag.

When ever I go to play game I can join official servers, but when I try to join a community server with a good ping, it wont load or connect. I can just click away and nothing happens. I have allowed rust through firewall, blah blah,ect. Plus all the official servers have a horrible ping to where I’m located. Now lag is god awe full. Probably because the horrible ping that i like 190-250. I bought this expecting a great survival game, but i cant play it without bad lag and no connection to community servers. Also there are huge amounts of community servers listed, but I JUST CAN’T CONNECT EVEN WITH GREAT PING. Please Facepunch fix this, or someone at least tell me how to fix these problems.