Can't connect to my own server, but others can.

Basically while I was playing my server, which is rented so I don’t host it off my own pc, my connection timed out as it always does because I live in a rural area. Now I cannot join, it stops at connecting to server, then it says failed after 4 retries. I’ve tried restarting it. Everyone else can join fine. All help is appreciated.

Can someone help with this?

Can I get some help?

[editline]29th July 2012[/editline]

I hate all of you

It is because of your internet, I am sorry to say, But you will not be able to play on your server with your friends unless you get a server closer to you or get better internet.