Install Mods without beeing in "modded server list"

I want to install Oxide or Rust++ (did not decide full so far), but i want my server to stay in the community server list. Is that possible?

If you mod your server it will be a modded server and therefore list in the corresponding list. You don’t find cheese in an electronics store.

But why i can find community Servers with starterkits?

They either fake their status to be listed, which is bad, or they are chocolate. If you run a server with binary mods like Oxide, don’t list it in community. That sucks. Don’t do it just because everybody else does it.