Just bought game and have a few questions

Is this world a real ruthless place or will I be able t find my noob way? I mean am I gonna get insta-killed over and over again all the time? I know it will happen but will it be to the point where it is frustrating?
BTW I am an avid open pvp fan and dont mind losing my stuff if I get killed was just wondering ifit’s hard to get started in this game to actually defend yourself:)

Also while offline people can destroy your house and does it happen often?

What is best tip to getting started? Thanks,…

If you look in the Community servers you should find a few “Noob Friendly” ones, which are actually called that in the list, or PvE will be your best bet. All the servers I have been in people are generally friendly and willing to help out.