Need Help with a ban

Hi, I’m admin on a modded server when i logged in i noticed my player name was coming up blue in chat but my admin abilities were still active. assuming it was the aphide plugin i retyped /aphide to return it to normal and was instantly eac banned. the owner of my server has tried to unban me with no luck but I have been able to log into other servers to play but haven’t found any other admins or owners who have had this issue and i still cannot log into my “home” server. Anyone have any ideas on how to fix this ?