Just stop screwing with the game.
There is no reason to remove this. You can have multiple tool cupboards within your house, there is really no issue here. When demolishing something, make it do it slowly. As a fix, if the players house still has a toolcupboard attached somewhere else, make it so someone else cannot pull it down until they are all gone.
This game seems to be one step forward, two steps back every month.
All this will achieve is push everyone to modded servers with a remove command. How are you meant to expand your house? Start again? I don’t think so some how.