Problem with cider menu

Hello, im having some problems with the cider menu/when you spawn.
One of the problems is that i want the menu to show when you are spawing. and ive been looking for hours/trying…

And i dont know if i just should do so when you spawn you will run a console command there is gm:showhelp
or there is a call in the cider gamemode…

some help lplease?