Stuck on Starting Screen

Hello all!

I am a brand new player.

When I start the game , it loads past the black “dead man” icon with XX eyes, and I come to a starting screen with campfire sounds and a server list on the right side.

Eventually all the servers load, I can make the asterisk to the left of them turn yellow , but nothing happens at all, I cannot seem to actually get onto any of the servers.

Am I doing something wrong?