Timed out 95% of the time while connecting to Darp RP server

Right after the Gmod steampipe update, I began to time out from my favorite server during connecting.
It usually takes 10 minutes to load up the map and fully spawn, so the time is the same, but it almost always ends in time out now,
(while freezeing my desktop and mouse [gmod windowed]) .
My internet is fast, my ping is around 35ms once in the game, for those of you thinking my isp is shit… (could they be packet shaping?)
I reinstalled Gmod, downloaded the 43 addons, then deleted all of them, and now I still get timed out 29 out of 30 times.